Experts say portion control is key when the temptations are endless.
1. Never Arrive Hungry
New York psychologist Carol Goldberg, PhD, says planning ahead can help you maintain discipline in the face of temptation. “Don’t go to a party when you’re starving,” she warns. Try to have a nutritious snack beforehand. If you do arrive hungry, drink some water to fill up before filling your plate.
2. Divert Your Attention
Many people forget that there’s more to a holiday party than food, Goldberg tells WebMD. “Don’t look at the party as just a food event,” she says. “Enjoy your friends’ company or dancing. Focus on something other than food.”
Finn agrees. She says chatting is a great diversion, whether you’re at a small family dinner or a large party. “Take your mind off of food and focus on the conversation.”
3. Pace Yourself
Have you ever tried telling yourself you’ll only eat during the first half hour of a party? Goldberg says this strategy is a mistake. “If you cram in as much as you can in half an hour, you chew faster. Chewing more slowly will fill you up with less food.”
To munch at a leisurely pace, Finn recommends putting your fork down between every bite. “This puts you in control.”
4. Count Your CanapÃ©s
When there are canaps, it’s easy to lose count of how many you eat. Keep track by stashing a toothpick in your pocket for each one. Set a limit and stick to it.
5. Outsmart the Buffet
When dinner is served buffet-style, use the smallest plate available and don’t stack your food; limit your helpings to a single story. “Go for the simplest foods on the buffet,” Finn says. “Fresh fruits and vegetables and shrimp cocktail are good choices. Watch out for sauces and dips.”
6. Limit Alcohol
Avoid drinking too much alcohol at holiday parties. “It’s not just about calories but about control,” Finn explains. “If you drink a lot you, won’t have as much control over what you eat.”
If you feel out of place without a drink, Goldberg suggests sipping water or club soda, “so you have something to carry like everyone else.”
7. Be Choosy About Sweets
When it comes to dessert, be very selective. “Limit your indulgences to small portions and only what is very sensual to you,” Goldberg says. Her personal rule on sweets: “If it’s going to have calories, it has to be chocolate.”
What about sampling several desserts, if you only take a tiny bite of each one? “You have to know yourself,” Goldberg says. “Some people can eat one bite of something and stop. I don’t think most people can do that. “If you know you’re the type who can’t stop at one bite, you’re better off taking a small portion of a single dessert than piling your plate with several treats you plan to “try.”
8. Bring Your Own Treats
Whether you’re going to a friend’s party or an office potluck, consider bringing a low-calorie treat that you know you’ll enjoy. Bringing your own dessert will make the more fattening alternatives less tempting.
And don’t feel your dessert has to be typical holiday fare. “Get away from rigid thinking about what holiday food has to be,” Goldberg says. “People love fruit.”
9. Limit ‘Tastes’ While Cooking
If you do a lot of cooking during the holidays, crack down on all those “tastes.” “People lose their appetites when they’ve been cooking because they’ve been eating the whole time,” Finn tells WebMD. Instead of tasting mindlessly every few minutes, limit yourself to two small bites of each item pre- and post-seasoning. “Just put the spoon in and taste a little bit,” Finn says. “It’s not grounds for a big scoop.”
For tried-and-true recipes, dare yourself not to taste the dish at all until it is served.
10. Walk It Off
Make a new holiday tradition: the family walk. Besides burning some extra calories, this will get everyone away from food for a while.
“Get people off the couch and move,” Finn says. “Go out for a walk as a family before or after the meal.” She says walking not only benefits you physically but also puts you in a mindset to be more careful about what you eat. “There’s something about activity that puts you in control.”